It’s great working out with Darren, he keeps you motivated, changes up the routine every week, and it’s nice to be able to share the session with my sister. We have a laugh and feel totally relaxed, who’d have thought that about going to the gym! I’m getting stronger every week! And the real proof is in the fact I look forward to going every week.
I would highly recommend it.
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"He makes you feel good about your strengths and helps you work on your weaknesses." - Liz, Woodford Green
When I started training with Darren in April 2017, I was recovering from a knee injury.
I'd had to give up running and bootcamp at the suggestion of the consultant, so I'd taken up Pilates and started doing a lot more walking.
I'd been thinking about weight training for a while but I didn't really want to join a gym.
When my friend suggested we share training sessions with Darren, I jumped at the chance.
It's great as we can share the cost of the session but we can also motivate each other (and have a few laughs).
And as we train from Darren's home gym, our sessions are 100% private.
Darren also gives us dietary advice and has talked to us about basal metabolic rate and calorie counting.
This has completely changed the way I think about food and as a result, I have a much healthier relationship with it. (As a serial dieter, it's very liberating to realise that no foods are off-limits).
Darren is a motivational trainer and a top bloke. He makes you feel good about your strengths and helps you work on your weaknesses. Workouts are varied and fun, and he even lets you choose the music!
My knee is the strongest it has felt in a long time (but I still hate lunges)!
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I love training with Darren. He trains my friend and I together which is brilliant for motivation. I have always hated the gym but now I look forward to our sessions & have seen the difference in a few weeks. I also feel better mentally & as a runner notice the improvement in my core strength. I would recommend Darren to anyone & nothing is ever too much trouble for him which makes such a difference.
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We all have them, either gathering dust in the corner or being overused and worn out by the constant use of them. No, I’m talking about the exercise bike that is doubling up as a clothes hanger! I’m referring to that small square object that rules our lives, and can control the way we feel. Making us happy, sometimes, but mostly leaves us despondent. A bit like having a kebab and then regretting it after.
It’s the weighing scales!
Please deliver us from this evil! So many diets and exercise regimes have failed because this contraption tells us “you are still fat”, “you really messed up this week.” How many times have we fallen into the same old trap and letting the scales rule our lives! How many times have we been to a slimming club and one of the first things you see are scales sitting there, mocking us. People will deliberately not eat that day because they want to lose some weight before the big weigh in. It’s probably why many people don’t consistently turn up week on week. Knowing they have not done as well as they have liked.
Don’t get me wrong
These clubs serve a purpose of getting people together and offering support to helping to try to lose that weight, but using a pair of scales to record your success and failure isn’t the best way of keeping you motivated and consistent with your diet and exercise.
Fact: The scales will tell you accurately your body WEIGHT! But not your body fat!
Females, don’t beat yourselves up! You have it hard!
As a female, your weight can go up and done more times during the month than a basketball on crack. Because of the menstrual cycle your weight can fluctuate by up to 10 pounds or around 5kg within that month. How many women get on the weighing scales everyday and see the weight go up and down making your head spin. This will lead to feeling low and confused especially if the numbers don’t go the way you want them to.
Weight fluctuations are normal
Everyone will have weight fluctuations during day to day living. This could be down to many reasons including water retention, bloating after eating certain foods i.e. carbs can temporarily store water. You notice a pattern? Water! If your weight is going up and down over the day then it’s probably water not fat!
Water does not equal having body fat
Let’s put this into perspective. I just weighed myself, and I’m now at 12 stone, around 76kg. I then drink a large glass of water which weighs and then another. Weigh myself again, OMG. I’ve just gained another 4 pounds in weight! Ok, shall I?
P.S. I have done number 2 on more than one occasion. Don’t judge me! I love a bourbon! Anyway, the point is, within a 2-minute period, I put on around 4 pounds in weight not fat. Let’s face it, we normally go on the scales and presume that we have gained fat weight, not water.
Ok, what do I do then?
Don’t throw away the scales, just use them as a tool, but not the only tool. What we need to know how much body fat you have. The bad news is, it’s quite difficult to measure. There are tools and instruments you can purchase that are “suppose” to measure body fat. Quite frankly though, these can be very inaccurate and can give you a false reading.
Calipers: Pinch the skin in certain places on your body and get a measurement – very hard to use to get an accurate reading.
Body fat monitor scales: Measures through a small electrical current passing through the body which measure how fast the current travels through water, bone, muscle – never found these great as your hydration levels can fluctuate and can give you a false reading.
DEXA body fat scan: A machine goes over you body like an X-ray and give you a body composition scan - Quite accurate but also can be expensive, not even certain you get a Bourbon biscuit while waiting.
Water displacement: Under water weighing in a water tank. Which measures water displacement and calculates tissue density etc – Sounds expensive, sounds stupid, I have a life. Besides I’ve seen the film Jaws and I don’t fancy the flashbacks.
Looks like I’m screwed then!
Go by how your clothes fit: Get on some trousers (non-elastic) etc. See how they fit? Are they getting looser around the waste? Then you are heading in the right direction. Are they getting tighter? Go back and check your calorie intake.
Mirror: Look in the mirror. You are the best measuring device to know how you’re doing.
Measuring tape: Measure around the hip and waste and write down the results once every couple of weeks or even better once a month. If the measurement is getting lower, you’re on point. If it’s going up, go back and check your calorie intake.
Scales: If you must use the scales, then remember to change your mindset about what the scales tell you. It’s body weight not body fat. Only weigh yourself once every couple of weeks or even once a month. Just make sure the scales are on the same flat surface used the week before. Weigh yourself the same time of day, preferably when you get up in the morning.
Keep it simple
Don’t over complicate things. Eat mostly whole good foods, exercise a few times a week, sleep well, stay hydrated. Be patient, it will happen!
Woman Should Lift!
We see it in every gym. Men hogging the free weights grunting and groaning like their lives depending on them making caveman noises. While the women…not all, can be seen hitting the cross rower or treadmill. If you’re lucky you may see some women hitting the resistance machines and maybe picking up some dumbbells. I know this is just a generalisation but it’s a sad fact too many females are missing out on a wonderful way to get strong and fitter with the use of free weights.
Why is this the case?
Many women are intimidated by the resistance/free weight area. They avoid it and rather go to the cardio section or join a pump class. It’s the fear of the unknown and feeling they are doing something wrong, could be one of the reasons. You may not be sure you are doing things correctly. Another reason could be that the guys tend to hog the weights section and tend to take over, claiming the area like a dog cocking it’s leg up the neighbour tree.
Resistance to lose weight?
The fact is, training with weights is the best way to lose weight. Period. By creating lean muscle, you speed up your metabolism as lean body mass need the calories you to feed them! So instead of storing excess calories, you are making your body use them to repair the muscles after a workout.
It needs to change
Things may be changing in our gyms, but not fast enough. Staff at these gyms should be encouraging their female members to use these machines and free weights and educating them on where to start and how to lift in a safe way. Give them the tools to go away and be confident within the resistance areas.
Don’t be afraid of asking the staff to guide you to helping you achieve a safe, effective use of resistance machines and free weights. You can also look around the gym floor and observe how other people are using the equipment. Book some personal training sessions at the gym, make use of their experience and knowledge to help you to reach your goals. Don’t forget the power of YouTube! There are plenty of people offering tips on how the lift, push and pull. My personal favourite is ScottHermanfitness who has a wealth of videos on training every part of your body.
Not sure still? Hit the machine weights.
Most stationary machines usually have instructions on how to use them and are safer to use than free weights. This is because they are set up to perform a specific movement. If you have read the blurb attached to it. Just remember to make sure the weight pin is set to a light weight and give it a go. Think about what joints you are using and what muscles are being worked. Do three sets of ten reps and next week increase the reps to eleven or twelve and so on. When you’re hitting up to fifteen reps, think about taking the weight up a little.
Remember that every part of the gym should be open to everyone! Don’t let part of the building become a no-go area. You could be that female that gets other to try a large part of the gym that a cross trainer cannot compete with.